The Mature Theory

Do you really change when you grow up?

Did your characteristics change?

Did your feelings change?

Had your likings changed?

                                   Simple and clear the answer is “NO”.

  

Yes, Its NO, we always remain the same person throughout our lives. We are our unique selves and there is no change within us since our childhood. You don't believe me - Ask your mother, no one could tell better. For most of the things we think during our young age that, we will change when we grow up, actually do not change, not even our challenges.

Our problems remain the same and  even our problem solving approaches. In class 1 we used to tackle and made mistakes with our plus and minus problems and even now we have to do the plus and minus problems and we make the same mistakes.

You don't change physically, very true, your body grows in the same proportion as you were in younger age. DO CHECK YOURSELF. Just take an old picture of yours at least 5-10 years old and gaze patiently and you will find that there is only change of the dimensions, not proportions.

Why only the physical world, let's immerse into the world of feelings. Do you think your feelings, your likings have changed? Just imagine a simple thing which you liked in your young age(ex. Baraf ka gola, Imli, those orange unwrapped toffees, that kala churan)and the list  goes on as to what ever was available in your vicinity at that point of time, and even if now you get to see that in some shop, you won't be able to control yourself, *condition applied*, no body is watching you. Same is the feeling for pets, if you loved them since childhood, you will continue to love them, and if you don’t, then its hard to accept them now.

And now when the strings of feeling have been thrummed then why to leave you first love away... yes the very smile which you are wearing now by reading the lines above, which brought a ever mesmerising face to your mind will remain there for ever and feelings for that special one will always remain there, whithereto the conditions.

The passion for money remains the same throughout our life.

The way we laughed, the way we cried all remains the same.

Even the order of the seniority of the things available while we were born remains the same.

THEN WHAT IS MATURITY???

Maturity is a well shaped, shined and beautifully crafted shell for our inherent, innocent childish feelings, to cover them up for the sake of our increasing age and dimensions. 


So, what a mature person will do is to hide his feelings and never let them come out but what a virtuoso will do is to bring out those feelings in a way to create an aura of persuasiveness towards the enlightenment of the self and the people around.

Everybody pretends to be mature and so does our parents. The day we were born they covered their feeling in that shell and started dedicating every single moment of their lives to us. They forgot their taste and started liking the things we liked, they forgot their enjoyment and started living the moments we enjoyed, they forgot their sports and started playing the games we played, they even forgot their needs and our demands became their priorities, things apart, even they forgot their schedule and scheduled their life according to ours. 

It were we who went to the schools but they were our parents who followed our school schedule. 

It's the time which is getting mature and not us.


But now it's the time for us to move ahead and help our parents and make them live their lives and for this reason even if we have to become mature then don't step back because this is the point when maturity should resonate in our mind, soul and body.

It's the high time to work hard in pursuit of excellence and bring happiness, name and fame to those two 
                   
                                          "UNDEFINED GODS"

who shelled their lives for us years ago and take them out of that maturity shell and make them enjoy the beautiful life they deserve.

.i hope you understand.

                        CHEERS AND liveAKHAND